London, ON, Canada
Stanley Carr
Current Location: London, ON, Canada
In 1977, I was deployed as part of the United Nations Force in Cyprus (UNFICYP) as a platoon commander in H Company, Second Battalion, The Royal Canadian Regiment (2RCR). My Company Commander was Major Larry Bowen. As platoon commander, I was understandably quite junior, having only graduated from my final phase of Infantry Training that summer. I was quite close to my soldiers, like most young junior Lieutenants, and often went out on the lines in the United Nations buffer zone between the Greeks and the Turks, inspecting and watching for ceasefire violations. Two anecdotes are worth recalling.
Moustache Story
One evening in a moment of weakness, to show my cohesion with the platoon, off-duty and drinking, if I recall, we had a bet that I lost. The result was that my driver and I had to shave off half of our moustaches for 24 hours. Not wanting to lose face, I did follow through and let the guys shave half my moustache off; they did the same to my driver, only on the opposite side to mine. We were supposed to keep it that way — they all suspected we wouldn’t and would return the next morning cleanly shaven. My fellow Company officers had a great chuckle, especially Captain Tom Geburt, who fashioned a great bushy ’stache. Much to the platoon’s surprise, I insisted my driver and I maintain the half moustache for the agreed-to 24 hours. However, the next morning I had an important meeting with the local Greek National Guard Colonel on a UN buffer zone issue. Not wanting to display any sign of weakness, and despite feeling very awkward, I attended the meeting with half a moustache — which of course caught the Greek officers completely off-guard and bewildered. When they saw me with half of a moustache on one side of my face matched by my driver, also with one half of a moustache, they had a good chuckle. They must have thought “those crazy Canadians”. To make matters even more comical, the Greek Colonel and most of his staff all wore full bushy moustaches.
Danger on the Line
The next anecdote involved a more serious lapse in judgment. One day at our Company Commander briefing, we received a directive to watch for Turkish officers (and others on the line) carrying weapons with magazines in the weapon. This was a violation. So that day, whilst patrolling the line, I had occasion to dismount to meet a young Turkish officer about an issue in my sector. During the conversation, and in full view of his soldiers and mine, I noticed his pistol was loaded with a magazine, contrary to the agreed upon protocol. I told him in English no magazines and pointed to his pistol. He didn’t acknowledge the comment and remained steadfast. So, I repeated in what I thought was the Turkish equivalent word...No “chargers”. He ignored me again. So in a moment of frustration (and stupidity), I reached for his pistol and loudly shouted “No Chargers’. At that moment, all I heard were various weapons on their side of the line cocking. In response, my soldiers cocked their weapons as well. The heat of the moment was short, as the Turkish officer removed his magazine and ordered his troops to stand down. The moment was scary, in retrospect; however, I was pleased by my soldiers’ immediate reaction to hearing the Turkish soldiers arming their weapons. However, it easily could have escalated into a dangerous if not deadly incident, predominantly of my making.
Biography
I come from a military family. I joined the Primary Reserves in 1970 and transferred to the Regular Force in 1975. Eventually, I landed in the Infantry as platoon commander with 2 RCR in August 1976. I served in Cyprus in the period Dec 77–April 78. In 1980, I transferred to the Intelligence Branch, serving most of my career there, including a posting in Electronic Warfare, with 1 Canadian Signals Regiment. In 1984–85, I served two tours in Cyprus, as the Force Minefield Recording Officer (FMRO), then was posted to the Canadian Forces School of Intelligence and Security. In 1991, I attended Norwegian Army Staff College and spent three additional years in Allied Forces Northern Europe, (AFNORTH). In 1995, I reverted to the Primary Reserve, ultimately served as Commanding Officer of 22 Service Battalion in London, ON as well as other posts in NDHQ, including J9 CIMIC (Civil-Military Cooperation) and J2 international and Domestic Criminal Tribunals. I reverted back to the Regular Force in 2004 and served in Afghanistan in the Spring of 2005, earning a U.S. Army Bronze Star. I retired in June 2006.
In 1985, while serving as the Force Minefield Recording Officer (FMRO) for the second time, I had the occasion to present my brother, Private Edward Carr, his UNFICYP medal. H was serving with 1 RCR under Lieutenant-Colonel Denis Thompson and Regimental Sergeant Major Marv MacDonald. My brother went on to serve 35 years in the Canadian Forces, achieving the rank of Master Warrant Officer.
June 2021. Me visiting my grandfather’s gravesite — Cecil Carr, he was a WW II veteran.
Me in Afghanistan in 2005 with CFC HQ.